Sharing and Learning Your Soccer Story

I remember seeing my dad jump up and down in anticipation as I blocked the incoming soccer ball from my opponent. I was in the 5th grade and what might have been embarrassing for some was added excitement for me as I eagerly attacked the soccer ball. I guess it was only natural for me to want to share my love for soccer with boys. When my oldest son, Aiden was three, I signed him up to learn soccer skills in a program called Lil Kickers. He wasn’t sure about the game at first, but the class taught him basic skills of kicking, passing and running that bolstered his confidence. By the time he was 4-years-old, Aiden was ready for us to sign him up for our town’s recreational soccer team. It was funny to watch Aiden and his teammates swarm around the ball and move it up and down the field all clustered together. Each year Aiden progressed in his soccer skills, and this year he started asking about playing in a more competitive setting.

Where does your soccer story start? Are you ready to try something new or move to the next level? Soccer Mom guide.


September is Youth Soccer Month, and a perfect time to share and learn about soccer.  I found myself at a crossroads when my son asked about taking his soccer to the next level. I knew I wasn’t alone in my soccer questions. Whether it’s just beginning soccer or moving competitive, it’s a story worth sharing.  I brought my questions to Marlow Campbell, the Executive Director of Triangle Futbol Club Alliance. Marlow has a background in being a professional player, coach, and a dad.

Here’s what I learned:

What is a good age for children to start playing soccer? “The ages of 3-4 is good time to start playing for many kids.  A lot of this depends on the attention span of the individual player.  The beauty of it is the kids may be nervous and apprehensive the 1stweek, but they get more comfortable each week moving forward.”

What are the benefits of children playing soccer? “There are many benefits to playing to playing soccer.  It helps with coordination, fitness, communication, and working with others to achieve a common goal.  These are life lessons we see players also use off the field.”

When is it a good time for youth to move from a recreation team to a more competitive team? “For some players, the age of 6 is a good time to explore more competitive environments.  For the majority, 7-9 is when they move.  The move to more competitive teams also involves a little more of a commitment with an additional day or two of training.  This helps the player truly develop the skills to compete.”

When Marlow answered my questions, I felt like we were on the right track and ready to move forward.

Where are you in your soccer story?

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6 comments on “Sharing and Learning Your Soccer Story”

  1. Liz says:

    Aw that’s so exciting Aiden is eager to move up to a more competitive league! I didn’t start playing soccer until almost middle school; I started off playing softball, but fell in love with soccer and switched in fifth grade and I haven’t looked back since! Triangle Futbol Club is a great program to progress through 🙂

    1. Rachel says:

      Thanks for sharing your soccer story. We just started TFCA, and I’m excited to take the next step.

  2. Duarte says:

    my son is in love with soccer and today he is very happy that he is going up in the category and this is very nice to see

    1. Rachel says:

      That’s awesome! Soccer is such a wonderful sport that teaches teamwork and athleticism.

  3. Sam says:

    We should encourage our belongings to go to this beautiful game. This makes them fit physically, mentally and it teaches how teamwork is the most important. My son is 3 and already into football so I am gonna support him till the end. Thank You.
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  4. I love soccer and I wish I had the chance to be a football player, but unfortunately, I was hit by a car when I was a child… I barely can walk now!
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